We shouldn’t fight over this

My husband and I have had some huge fights before, but this one is probably the biggest. He has been sleeping on the couch for three nights now, and I’m starting to think maybe I was wrong. I have literally never seen him this mad before, and he is refusing to back down although he has always given me my way in the past. The problem started with him smoking in the house, even though I had asked him not to do that. One day I came home to find the entire house filled with the pungent smell of marijuana smoke, enough to almost choke me. I told him about the house rule of no smoking, and he said that applied to tobacco, not cannabis. I explained to him that no smoking meant no smoking, even if he was smoking cannabis. Not to mention, marijuana is still illegal in this state without a prescription so there were a lot of reasons I didn’t want him doing it. Fast forward a few more days, and I find out he has been eating marijuana edibles. This lead to another fight, the one he wouldn’t back down on, because the rule way about smoking, not about cannabis in other forms. He said to me that he could respect my aversion to the smell of smoke, but if I was trying to tell him he couldn’t enjoy cannabis in any form then I could get lost. I guess I didn’t know just how much my husband enjoyed cannabis, but I suppose edibles are something I can live with.

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